Spouse Selection Workshop held in Mombasa

The Africa Federation Tabligh Board (AFTAB) in collaboration with the Mombasa Jamaat embarked on a two-day Spouse Selection Workshop on 9^th and 10^th August 2025 in Mombasa. The workshop was facilitated by Shaykh Ali Rajani and aimed at educating and empowering youth on one of life’s most significant decisions, choosing a righteous life partner. 

With an encouraging turnout of over 50 participants aged 18 and above, the workshop was designed to provide both spiritual and practical guidance on the journey towards marriage. The sessions were highly interactive, incorporating Q&A discussions, case studies, and the use of anonymous platforms like Slido, which encouraged even the more reserved participants to engage comfortably.

To enable more open conversations, separate sessions were arranged for boys and girls. These allowed deeper dialogue and one-on-one guidance with Shaykh Ali Rajani for the boys and Sr. Mehjabeen Khaki for the girls. The workshop focused on: 

• Understanding how to choose the right spouse

• Exploring the key qualities and characteristics of a potential partner

• Emphasizing the purpose of marriage from moral, emotional, and religious perspectives

• Offering practical guidance on navigating the process of marriage responsibly and Islamically

Impact and Feedback

The workshop was widely appreciated by participants for its relevance, clarity, and engaging presentation style. Many described it as a 10/10 experience, highlighting the balance of Islamic teachings with relatable, real-life scenarios. The anonymous participation tool (Slido) was particularly praised for allowing open expression without hesitation. 

One participant reflected:

“It helped me understand more about fixing myself as an individual rather than just looking for the ideal spouse. The presentation style was amazing, and the Slido feature made it so easy to share thoughts anonymously.” 

From the sisters, valuable feedback included the need for more ladies-only sessions to foster greater openness and comfort, as well as requests for deeper exploration of sensitive but relevant topics such as modern dating, approaching relationships Islamically, and tackling challenges faced by today’s youth. 

Another participant shared:

“The workshop offered valuable insights into marriage, combining Islamic guidance with practical advice. It was engaging, clear, and interactive. More workshops like this should be organized to build stronger understanding.”

Key Outcomes 

• High Engagement: The majority of participants rated the delivery as excellent and the content highly relevant.

• Appropriate Structure: Around 80% felt the time allocated was just right, though some suggested additional hours for extended discussion.

• Positive Impact: Participants left with clearer perspectives on marriage, inspired to apply Islamic principles in their decision-making.

Conclusion

The Spouse Selection Workshop in Mombasa proved to be an impactful initiative, offering youth a safe, insightful, and practical platform to prepare for one of the most important milestones in their lives. The overwhelming feedback emphasized both its success and the strong demand for similar workshops in the future.

We extend our heartfelt gratitude to the facilitators, the Mombasa Jamaat, and all who contributed to making this program possible. May Allah (SWT) grant continued tawfiq in guiding and supporting our youth so that they may build a future rooted in strong faith and make the right choices to lead a successful, Islamic-oriented life.

SECRETARIAT

TABLIGH BOARD OF AFRICA FEDERATION (AFTAB)

September 2, 2025